If you follow the current advice from health visitors and paediatricians, you
will no doubt be doing everything for your baby ‘on demand’. Feeding on demand,
letting him sleep on demand, changing nappies on demand. Only one of these three
things is clearly the right way to go for all babies. Which one? Changing
nappies on demand, of course! This is the one area you will never have any
control over…
You can, however, help your baby be happier and more contented when he is awake,
simply by helping him learn how and when to sleep.
Why use a routine?
A routine for you and your baby takes the guess-work, and therefore the
anxiety, out of looking after your baby. If you understand his sleep needs, and
work out a routine which meets these needs, both you and your baby will be a lot
happier.
How babies sleep
In the very early days your baby will probably be asleep more than he is
awake. And when he is awake, he will probably only be feeding or crying! After a
few weeks, however, your baby will begin to engage with the world around him,
and his awake-times will be more pronounced.
Now is the time to gently nudge your baby into a routine which will help him
thrive and get the most out of his rest. Without a routine, most babies will nap
on and off all day, from ten minutes to hours at a time. The problem with these
patterns is that they interfere with a baby’s ability to take his longest nap at
night. As a new parent, you will have a lot invested in wanting your baby to
sleep for longer periods at night as soon as he is ready.
So when should babies sleep?
A young baby should ideally not be awake for more than two hours at a time.
After two hours, a baby will become tired and cranky. He may seem to want to
stay awake, but don’t be fooled. Many babies will fight sleep – who wouldn’t?
There is so much going on in their worlds, they don’t want to miss out!
A sleep routine
A good routine is as follows: Wake your baby at 7.00am and feed him. By
9.00am he has been awake for 2 hours so take him to a quiet part of your home
(his nursery is ideal) for a nap of around an hour. This will refresh him for
the next two hours. Pop him down again for a longer nap at lunchtime. A 2 hour
sleep now will help him get through the day without getting over tired, so wake
him at around 2.00pm. If you plan to put your baby to bed at around 7.00pm,
after his last feed, he may need another, shorter nap at 4.00pm. You could let
him have this in his pram, getting both of you some fresh air (and some exercise
for you).
If your baby has between three and four hours of sleep in the daytime, he will
find it easier to have his longer sleep at night, making life easier for all of
you in no time at all.
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