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Diary Of A New Mum -
Week 12
Two steps forward, three steps back
So, remember last week when I was saying
(boasting?) that Jess was sleeping through now until about half-six/seven in the
morning? On Monday night this week she gave me heart-failure by waking up
screaming for food at 2.00am and then again at 4.30am! I was inconsolable.
It’s funny because it didn’t bother me
that much when she was still being fed in the night. Paul and I had our rota all
worked out and, apart from being half-asleep while shoving the bottle in her
cute little mouth, it all worked pretty well. She started to go longer and
longer between feeds all by herself – we never pushed her into it. But we
clearly got used to it very quickly. And loved it. Because in the early hours of
Tuesday morning I thought my world had ended at the thought of having to go back
to night feeding…
Paul got up and did them both, despite
being at work the next day. I lay in bed and tried to work out what had gone
wrong. She’d fed the same amount as usual in the day (one benefit of
bottle-feeding is that it’s easy to tell how much milk your baby has had). She’d
had the usual amount of sleep. Gone to bed at the same time. We’d woken her at
10.30pm, as usual, to give her a top-up bottle before we went to bed. What had
gone wrong?
The next night I went to bed with a sick
feeling, not knowing if I’d get a good night’s sleep or be up in a few hours.
And Jess went through until 5.00am! So go figure. The health visitor says it is
probably a growth-spurt (sounds painful), and that all babies go through these
at various times and need either more food or feeding more often. Of course, her
tummy is so tiny she can’t fit a lot in, bless her. (Unlike her mother, who
seems to be surviving mainly on chocolate at the moment!)
What is going well is that Jess is going
to sleep in her cot in the evenings. I’m not sure how it happened, only that I
asked Paul to sort it out (as I was working so hard on the routine in the day
time) and he kind of did! Just did it. Thanks, Paul. And he managed it with
hardly any crying (Jess, not Paul)! So that is a step in the right direction.
The step backwards – because every move forwards seems to be followed by a step
backwards – is that Jess has started hating her bath-time.
It’s such a shame – she loved it before.
She even liked having her hair washed (I used to be a hairdresser so I do it
really professional). Now she’s taken to screaming her head off when I wash her
hair, and screaming again when she’s taken out of the bath, and again when we
try to dry her. It’s turned what was a pleasurable activity into a bit of a
chore to be honest.
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