Editor's Note: This article is possibly aimed at
parents of older children but the ideas are so good and the message
behind the article - that goal setting is vital for success at all
levels - is so important, that we wanted to feature it. And of course
many of the ideas can be adapted for younger children.
By Laura Bishop
New book bags, clothes, sneakers will not guarantee a child’s school success. Thirty days after school starts the book bag will be torn, the
clothes will be dirty and the new pens lost. Now what?
These things may give a child a good first impression
with a new teacher, but they will not insure their success during the
entire school year. The key to a child’s success in school is
educational responsibility. Here are some ideas to help them.
Top 10 Rules for Success in School (and in life)
1. No Vision = No Direction. Write down what you want
to accomplish in the first 30, 60, 90 days of the school year.
2. Don't Find a Fault; Find a Solution.
3. Minimizing the Bummer Words that can hold them back
from reaching their full potential – no, can't, won't, never, maybe, and
if.
4. Learn how to set and achieve goals and how to use
these principles in the classroom.
5. To get ahead in life - learn more, do more.
6. Use the "I'll Make It Happen" words: yes, I can,
and I will.
7. Eliminating excuses.
8. Ask yourself everyday: "Did I give my best effort
to today's activities?"
9. Help others.
10. Enthusiastically take action on your dreams.
Suggestions for implementation
Highlight one rule and focus on it for one week. The
next week choose another rule to focus on for the week. Over a ten week
period each rule will get your attention for one week. Repeat the
process until these rules become a habit. You Are a Winner!
When teenagers develop an "I'll Make It Happen"
attitude it will positively impact their attendance, class
participation, personal decision making, and the overall academic
achievement. With these life skills teenagers will be able to more
clearly define what is important in life. They will learn that success
takes time, planning and determination.
Goal setting and educational ownership are fundamental
building blocks our teenagers need to become active participants in
their education and their future success.
Accent On Success® is a not-for-profit organization dedicated to helping
children succeed in school and in life. We want to reach 2,000,000
students by September 1st.
www.TeachingMoments.com
John Bishop is the Executive Director of Accent On Success® and author
of the Goal Setting for Students® book which has recently won three
national book awards.
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